Petunia2uall, 61

Looking for someone that wants to be best friends in a relationship... looking for Mr. Right that's clean and sober. I've been divorced for about 7 years. I'm a 45 year old female that looks and acts more like 30 to 35 years old. I'm an extrovert and very out-going. However, I like to spend time alone with my man. I'm very honest and open. My values are with my family and friends, my job and school, and loving and being loved.

I'm looking for a best friend and companion in my life. I'm not into playing games when it comes to a relationship. I want honesty most of all. I think an ideal man doesn't need to be perfect, just honest and willing to work at a relationship in good and bad times. I may sound like I'm aggresive but, I'm really not... I just know what it takes to make a realtionship work and I'm ready to find someone else that wants that too.

I don't date older men. But, I'm willling to give it a try if he thinks he can keep up with me.

I like to do most things that guys like. I can be girly if I want to be but, I don't enjoy the shopping, gossiping, etc. that goes along with most girls. I enjoy adapting to new ideas and situations that a man can bring to a relationship. I'm very openminded.

I'm financially stable and am not looking for someone that thinks he needs to be the bread-winner. I want a man that wants a relationship based on friendship and love... not money needs. I enjoy working - it keeps my brain working.

Most people say that I'm fun, loving, caring, and trustworthy. I believe that I am all of those and more.