Stardate2011, 60

looking for like mined my journey over the last 2 years or so has taken a lot of work, lot of soul searching. my life has surely needed every minute of it and i have benefitted so much and made some lifelong connections. during that time i had to focus entirely on my own needs to get the foundation i know have. now i feel its time to move on and open my life to include another who im hoping to become a soulmate, lover, best friend,and companion. i am not here out of desperation, nor looking for another to rescue me from any thing. what i look for in a potential woman is maturity,especially emotional maturity. someone who likes to have fun and be silly at times, but knows when to be serious and to what degree. also that has goals and dreams, desires that are realistic. physical appearance plays a part but its not the total basis on my deciding factors. for sure good hygene is impotant. i believe that if the spark is there great things can happen and i dont expect myself or the other to have to jump through hoops to prove themselves. my only caution in this is for the other. in no way would i want to be seeing someone who is still vulernable and susectible to harm if and when we became serious. hope u know what im trying to say in a general sense. thanks and look forward to hearing from like minded interested ladies.