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marklevye408
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Joined: October 9, 2007
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how often should you call your sponsor, what if you dont know what to talk about
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guardianofmidia
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Joined: February 26, 2008
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.When i First started in my recovery, i called my sponser 2 times a week. i think the average is once a week. the sponser should help with the 12 steps. someone to help u when u feel like falling off the wagon. a support system if u will |
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.a sponsor who has a sponsor who has a sponsor.... I need to be humble.. and ask for help. Especially today
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.I miss my sponsor but get to talk to her on the phone if I need her. I have worked the steps and am thinking about working them again with a new sponsor |
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.I'm in recovery and am a grateful addict/alcoholic and you can ask me anything you would like to know about me and how I stay clean and sober. |
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scarborough
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Joined: August 8, 2008
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`I think it is up to the sponsee to telephone the sponsor, when the sponsee thinks he/she is ready to talk. Sponsoorship is a two way relationship, and supports both parties.
Remember, we are responsible for own own decisions and choices, the sponsor is only a sounding board. I am responsible to choose my own decisions and choices, that way if I get it wrong, the mistake is my learning process.
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naiou1
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Joined: October 8, 2008
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How often would you like to receive calls if you sponsored someone. I sponsor a lot of people. I tell ask them to call me at least twice a week. I call my own sponsor twice a week for the last 15 years. (honestly I have missed a few times because of vacations and stuff).
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`I don't know about 12 step programs but i do know about giving up things that you love and have had every day for more than a decade, it takes a lot of will power and shows a lot of character within a person to change that life style, what i find best is keeping yourself busy, i go to the gym a lot so by the time i get home i'm too knackered to want to do anything.
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taboularasa
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Joined: October 6, 2012
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`I am looking for someone to be a lifelong facillitator. I need someone who is critical of both 12 step and non 12 step and harm reduction programs. I am knowledgeable about the pros and cons of both. I am poor and find myself dependant on my parents and would like to individuate and become who I am but I can't. I find Meritocratic life promoted in society to be the problem
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